Love is sweet, but your partner doesn’t just get turned on because you whispered “baby” in their ear. No oooo. It’s not laidat
You need to touch the right spots.
If you’ve been wondering how to set the mood and turn your boo on faster than PHCN can take light, here are six sure ways to ignite the spark:
1. Know How To Use Your Hands
Start from the top; scalp, shoulders, neck, and work your way down to the middle. Explore like Dora, and don’t stop till you’ve ticked all the boxes. Don’t rush, be intentional. Either go hard or go home (and if you’re Cynthia Ofore, abeg, go home).
2. Use Your Legs, Eyes, and Tongue To Talk
Communication no be by mouth alone.
Body language is louder than words.
Sometimes, it’s the way you move your legs, lock eyes across the room, or use your tongue to send the right signal. Actions speak louder than words, literally.
If you’re not fluent in this language, it’s time to enroll.
3. Activate Your Bedroom Voice
Aunty, Uncle, abeg drop that toutish voice. See ehn, nobody wants to hear you sounding like a conductor in Ojuelegba when you’re supposed to be serenading. Learn to talk soft, smooth, and sweet, like melted chocolate. Whisper beautiful nonsense into your partner’s ears like it’s poetry.
4. Set the Vibe
Mood is everything. Light a scented candle, pick a romantic playlist or maybe get a movie that will make you sit closer, and when I say movie, I’m not talking about action movies, you’re not trying to fight, you’re trying to ignite a spark.
5. Food and Money
Can somebody shout hallelujah!
Dis one no be long talk.
Sometimes, turning someone on is just by sending “Check your account” or a plate of jollof with turkey. Nothing screams romance like food and alert on the same night.
This is basically foreplay.
6. Dress To Tantalize Their Senses
Yes, dress up, even if na inside house. Rock that outfit that will make your partner lose common sense.
It’s not every time you’ll be wearing an oversized T-shirt, your faded singlet is not seductive, dress like you’re the dessert.
Let your outfit whisper, “Come and eat.”
At the end of the day, turning your partner on is about being intentional, attraction isn’t automatic.
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