"I Am not good at writing a composition but the whole thing started around last year November when I lost my job at a reputable company, things became hard that my ex-wife started with her attitude, someone I helped through her schooling, even opened a shop for her after our wedding.
She started losing interest inme because I was Broke and there was no more love because I couldn't meet up toher demands. She became the bread winner around that time, things didn't go asexpected for me, I needed to do a lot of things even pay for the rentedapartment we were in and the landlord came with the eviction letter.
Things became tough that shewasn't sleeping at home anymore, she would leave home for days and come backhome and give me some little change and leave again, she started to live withher aunt and I became so lonely and useless in her eyes.
Eventually when I came up withthe apartment money and we paid I decided I wasn't going to stay with her for awhile and go out and look for a job, to avoid fight and arguments. She latercalled me that her boss from the USA was back and she was to go and meet himbecause they had a meeting to do so I said OK since I usually speak and textwith his boss, so I allowed her to go.
So, after I left home I got ajob and I frequented coming home to see her and my baby. I later found out shebegan to lock her phone and I asked her for the password she wouldn't give itto me, so I began to suspect her.
One day I eventually found thepassword and I unlocked it while she was asleep. I found out through a chat shehad with her friend that she had sex with her said boss and she even bought aland without telling me all through the years we were together. I felt sobetrayed and angry. I woke her up and asked her about it and she started cryingand begging me.
I left home angrily and jilted.I was so devastated that I smoked a lot of weed that day and drank so muchbeer. I called my mom explained to her and later told her mom too. The next dayher mom called me that she wanted to poison herself because of what she did. Isent her boss a message on WhatsApp and that one didn't even answer me becausehe knew what he did with my ex-wife.
It's been months now since thishappened, and her mom calls me almost every day begging me to forgive and forgetbut how do I forget, it's not easy for me because I can be having sex with herand be seeing her boss face.
I blocked her on Facebook andWhatsApp but didn't block her calls or text message because of my baby when Ineed to send upkeep money. She calls me, but I don't pick up. I know that Ican't be with her anymore, but she has the wedding certificate we got at thecourt wedding. I told her to give the photocopy of the certificate to my mom,but she wouldn't do it.
Guys the reason why I wrote thisis who has an idea on how to go about a divorce without the certificate becausesomeone told me the certificate is important for the divorce. I don't knowanything about it and my uncle even said the divorce will cost me a lot ofmoney about 650k. I don't know if that's true too. Lol.
Please guys help here. I havethe proof of the chat and the audio conversation of the sex escapade with herboss so that will help in the court. My lovely daughter is 2 years now. How doI even collect my daughter from her? I have left all my properties for herbecause of my daughter and am starting my life afresh. Will the court be ableto grant me my daughters custody although am not ready to train her myself, butI have my mom who can do that for me?
In addition to all this guy's ifyour girl or woman passwords her phone and doesn't show you her password bevery careful she might be cheating because not only did I find out she had sexwith her boss I also found out she was also on some random social medianonsense talking to some random guys and all that and that she also bought aland without telling me for 3 years we were together.
Thanks for learning from my story and God bless you guys."