It's perfectly okay to say "NO". You don't have to say yes simply because you want to give others a "good" impression of yourself.
If you feel uncomfortable in any situation, then LEAVE. You are not a tree, learn to take a walk when circumstances seem unfavourable
That break-up is not going to kill you! Yeah I know you guys dated for 8 years and it feels like you will never love anyone else the same way, but trust me you'll get over it and you won't die.
You are more intelligent and beautiful than you give yourself credit for. Learn to appreciate your uniquenss
The struggle usually pays off at the end of the day. The older you get, the better you'll be at handling the ups and downs of life.
All your friends that you think are currently doing better than you will have their own struggles in life too. Envy no one
You have to learn how to make decisions on your own. Quit looking for people to help you decide what the right choice is!
Life itself will always stress you but you have to learn how to deal. This might not seem like the life you plan to live but it's okay, plans change, people change. You will get through it.