Ekene Aka
Valentine’s Day dey come again, and while some people dey para for red roses and teddy bears, you no be mumu. You sabi say true love no get deadline, and sometimes, the best way to celebrate yourself is to do you, boo! So, forget the pressure and join the Anti-Valentine movement, Naija style. Here’s how:
1. Channel your inner spirit:
- Organize an “Anti-Val” party: Instead of canoodling with one boo, gather your squad for a night of board games, karaoke, or even a good old-fashioned bonfire (safety first!). Naija parties are legendary, so make it lit .
- Host a “Palentine’s Day” brunch: Show love to your platonic besties with a delicious brunch spread and heart-shaped pancakes (minus the cheesy messages, of course). Remember, true friendship deserves celebrating too!
- Treat yo’self: Take yourself out for a solo movie, indulge in a spa day, or buy that thing you’ve been eyeing. Self-love is the best love, and who needs overpriced roses when you can have retail therapy? ♀️
- Escape the Valentine’s Day Trap:
- Mute the noise: Put your phone on silent and avoid social media feeds overflowing with mushy love posts. Nobody needs that kind of pressure, abeg.
- Support local, not overpriced chains: If you must go out, patronize small businesses instead of fancy restaurants. You’ll get better value and support your community at the same time. #SupportSmallBusiness ??
- Get crafty: Make your own Valentine’s Day cards with funny anti-love messages or bake anti-heart-shaped cookies. Creativity is your best weapon against Valentine
- Remember, love comes in many forms:
- Spend time with family: Show love to your parents, siblings, or even your annoying auntie. Family is forever, even if they sometimes drive you crazy.
- Volunteer your time: Give back to your community by volunteering at a local charity or organization. Helping others is a great way to spread love and feel good about yourself.
- Focus on your passions: Channel your energy into hobbies, learning a new skill, or pursuing a personal project. Self-improvement is the ultimate act of love for yourself.
Bonus Tip: Don’t be afraid to embrace the single life! Being “Anti-Val” isn’t about hating on love, it’s about celebrating yourself and your own happiness. Remember, you are enough, with or without a boo.
Remember, this guide is just a starting point. Be creative, have fun, and most importantly, stay true to yourself! Happy Anti-Val’s Day, Naija!
