odours are age long enemies that we have been battling against
Some of us suffer this every day, whether in commercial buses, crowded places, at work, and worst of all in the comfort of our homes.
Now, let’s face it, some conversations are harder than others.
Telling your friend they have body odour? That’s very awkward, but if you truly care about them (and your nostrils), it’s a conversation worth having.
Here are five subtle ways to break the news gently, without ruining your friendship:
1. The “I Just Discovered This Amazing Product” Approach
Start with excitement, not accusation.
“Hey! I just got this new deodorant and it’s a game changer. You’ve gotta try it!”
This method makes it sound like you’re sharing a life hack, not pointing fingers.
If you actually gift it to them, wrap it like it’s a birthday present and let the scent do the talking.
2. Blame the Weather
Lagos heat is no joke, so use it as your scapegoat.
“This sun is wild; I’ve been sweating like crazy, and I had to switch up my deodorant game. What do you use?”
This opens the door to a casual hygiene chat without making it personal. If they say, “I don’t really use deodorant,” you’ve got your cue.
3. The Group Upgrade
Suggest a collective glow-up.
“We should all do a self-care day facials, new scents!”
Make it a bonding experience, that way, it doesn’t feel like they’re being singled out, you’re just elevating the squad’s freshness together.
4. The Honest but Gentle Route
If you’re close enough, honesty might just be the kindest route.
“Hey, I hope this doesn’t come off the wrong way, but I’ve noticed a bit of body odour lately.
I figured I’d tell you because I’d want someone to tell me.”
It’s direct, but respectful and the key is tone, stay calm, kind, and avoid making it a public announcement.
5. Use Humor (If They Can Handle It)
Some friendships thrive on banter.
“Bro, did you fight with a pig on your way here? Be honest.”
If your friend is the type who laughs at everything, this might work, but tread carefully, humor can either soften the blow of your statement or start a cold war.
Body odour is natural but so is telling your friend when something’s off.
The goal isn’t to embarrass them, it’s to help them out.
If you approach it with empathy, it just might work and if it doesn’t? Your nose will hate you for life!
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