Evan (34}
I’ve been married to my wife for two years now, and if you think women do not cheat, then think again!
My wife flirts with men even in my presence and i’m beginning to think she has a spiritual problem.
Whenever I have to make a business trip outside the country or even outside the state where we reside, I get so scared leaving my wife alone, because I don’t know what she would do or who she might even bring to our home.
Trust me, I’m not proud to say this, but I had to put a tracker on her car and also hack her phone, because I do not trust her one bit.
She cheats more than I do, and it baffles me, because I thought men were meant to be the cheats?
What I even found on her phone, the kind of messages she entertains from men, the way she chats with other men, the attention she gives them, I’m not sure she has ever given me that much attention.
I cannot bring myself to touch her again, because she’s for the streets and I fear I might have just married a glorified prostitute.
We don’t have kids yet and I’m scared to have any with her, because I’m scared, she might give me another man’s child.
I don’t have peace of mind in this marriage.
what do I do actually.
Anonymous (37)
I got married to a religious man that doesn’t believe in birth control. He believes ultimately that my womb would stop bearing fruit when God intends.
I’ve begged him countless times to allow me to go on birth control so we can have sex without me getting pregnant, but this man has outrightly turned down my plea.
We have 6 beautiful children, boys and girls complete, yet this man still doesn’t want me to go on birth control.
I am very fertile and any small thing, I get pregnant, even though I’m already 37 years of age.
I secretly had to go get birth control and now I’m putting on scary weight, I eat all the time, and my husband is beginning to suspect.
The other day he was asking if I was pregnant, because my stomach was looking too big and I had to tell him I was just bloated.
If he finds out I got the birth control without his consent, I don’t know what he would do.
He holds that particular commandment of ” Go into the world and multiply” seriously.
I’m seriously tired of having kids!
Amara (49)
I got married to my husband at the age of 32. Before we got married, I worked in a bank and was very comfortable, but after we got married, I had to move to the state in Nigeria where he resided.
He didn’t have so much when we married, but I didn’t mind, I loved him enough and that was basically what mattered to me.
After a year, my husband started to talk about leaving Nigeria and moving to another country to find greener pasture as his business in Nigeria was not moving at all.
We thought about it together and finally decided that it was a good decision for the family, I would go over to meet him once he got settled.
We sold almost everything and gathered finances to make sure he travelled out to hustle for us.
I won’t lie, I was quite skeptical because we didn’t have children yet and I was already progressing in age. We tried but I didn’t get pregnant.
He finally travelled out and that’s when my problem began.
He rarely came back, he would never pick my calls, would never reply to my texts, he treated me like a total stranger, my own husband!
I called his phone one day and another woman picked up, infact he posted this other woman’s picture on Facebook and that was the moment I realized my husband was gone.
i picked myself up, started to hustle like a man and a woman, no kids, just myself and my business.
I decided to adopt a baby for myself and that was the best decision I made, because he gives me so much joy and peace, and I know he’s mine.
Fastforward to years later, my ex-husband’s sister came to my house to tell me that her brother was back in the country, and he would like to see me.
I outrightly refused to see him as nothing will ever make me forgive that man, not in this life or the next.
No need for a conversation.
By law we’re still legally married, but never again will I let him come near me or my child.
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