(And Complain About It)
Master Strategist
Some of you men are the real definition of “I saw the light and still walked into darkness.” You’ll open your eyes wide, see a woman living her best soft life, nails done, meals delivered, laundry outsourced, peace intact, and still think, “I can change her.”
For what? To turn her into your grandmother?
You belong to the set of awon “Men are to be served” and “My word is final.”
You know yourselves. You’ll meet this babe at a fancy restaurant, she’ll tell you her chef meal-preps for her, and you’ll still propose with confidence.
Some traditional men believe marriage grants them the right to reshape a woman’s life to fit their mold. That’s not love, ogbeni it’s domination.
Reality Sets In
Then six months after the wedding, you’ll start lamenting that your wife doesn’t cook or wash clothes.
Oga, she told you from the beginning, you were just too busy dreaming of “home training” to hear the warning.
If you wanted a woman who sees you as the “diamond of her life” because you’re the head of the house, why not go for someone who shares that worldview? ehnnn
You say you want a Proverbs 31 woman but forget that even Proverbs 31 had maidens (read your Bible well, sir). You can’t marry a soft-life babe and expect her to turn into your village wife overnight. That’s not marriage, that’s oppression with extra steps.
This isn’t about shaming traditional men or glorifying modern women.
Let likeminded people find themselves.
If you want a traditional wife, go to your village and stop disturbing women who work smart, not hard.
Because what’s wickedness if not marrying a modern woman just to punish her for living freely?
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