Hey besties, I stumbled upon this on my timeline and decided to bring it to you all.
I bet you never thought that in this woke 2023, some ladies are still falling victim to such japa schemes.
Here goes nothing…
“I’m aged 25 self-employed I ran into this man recently around March although we talk once in a while last year our conversation got deep as in March he stayed in Uk while I stay in Nigeria.
Also planned to relocate very soon he made me believe he was interested in me he need financial help cos he was supposed to migrate to Canada due to his visa expiration by next year February.
Agreed to help by giving him part of my own relocation savings (1m) to cut the story short as in the middle of May he started giving an attitude like he’s not ready to be in a relationship because he’s financially unstable now we barely talk most times.
I text him myself cos it’s hard to move on I don’t know what to do I feel used cos I’ve never been lucky to meet the right person now I look desperate for always texting him last time I did he said he will definitely call me but he’s going through a lot this morning I decided to text him again but no response.
Am not sad about the money am sad that this person just switched on me all of a sudden I was very used to his company and he lead me on to believe he wanted something serious with me”
Omo wetin Japa go cause ehn!!! Hmmmm, now that you’ve read through, what would you do if you were in her shoes?
Let us know in the comments…
She should just move on. There’s no use worrying over things you can’t control and you can’t force a man who doesn’t want to be kept to stay. It will be tough at first but she will definitely get over it. If she can recover her money that will be great but since she said it’s not bothering her, she should just redirect her energy towards building herself and executing her plans.