yes, love is a beautiful thing, but we can all agree that it is not always a bed of Roses. It could get rusty sometimes, and all you need to do is find a way to make it better, hotter and spicier!
Don’t worry fam, I gotcha!
These are 5 amazing ways to spice up your sexual life:
1.The 7-Day No Touch Rule
Completely voluntary and completely maddening in the best way!
You and your partner agree to no sex for 7 days. Kissing is allowed; touching is allowed but nothing goes further. This way, the anticipation even before the 7 days is over will be crazy!
By day four, you will be looking at each other like two people that have forgotten to eat.
Scarcity is still the oldest spice in the books!
2. Change the Location Within your Home
See, over familiarity will kill the vibe faster than anything. Switch things up, forget the bedroom and try the kitchen, the staircase, the balcony if your neighbours are asleep and you’re that brave.
3. Send a Text You’d Never Normally Send
You don’t have to send anything too long. It could be a single paragraph, one line that’ll have him/her distracted at an office meeting, smiling from chin to chin. Yes! that type of message.
The anticipation that builds between that text and when you guys finally see is like free foreplay. Use it generously
4. Doing Nothing Together
We might not know, but the most underrated foreplay is time.
Book a nice chill spot, with no phones, tv, no social media distractions, just nature and the both of you, unhurried with no single place to be.
You’ll be surprised how magically this works.
5. Make a Playlist
Music just has a way of setting the exact mood you need. It is like an architect that builds up the sexual tone in your relationship.
Build a deliberate playlist together, sit down, trade songs, negotiate.
The act of building it is already intimate, you’re essentially telling each other what energy you want.
Now, try all these and thank me later!
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