Ekene Aka
Many Nigerians, myself included sometimes, hear the phrase “greener pastures” and automatically think “Japa!” (to travel abroad in search of better opportunities). We imagine oyinbo land (foreign countries) as a land flowing with milk and honey, where streets are paved with gold and problems just disappear. But, na true? (is it true?)
The Myth: Escape Over Effort
The myth paints a picture of a problem-free paradise elsewhere. We imagine ourselves leaving behind the struggle of “hustling” in Naija for a land flowing with “milk and honey.” This can lead to “japa” mentality, where we see leaving as the only solution, neglecting the potential for growth right where we stand. As Chinua Achebe wrote in “Things Fall Apart,” “A man who cannot face the needs of his chi [personal spirit] will not be looked after by it.” Running away from challenges doesn’t make them disappear – they just follow you like your “village people.”
The Reality: Growth Through Facing Challenges
The truth is, even the “greener pastures” have their own set of problems. No place is perfect. Instead of seeking escape, what if we embraced the “sabi” (wisdom) to face our challenges head-on? Like the proverb says, “If you know how to dance, you can dance anywhere.” By developing resilience and honing our “hustle” spirit, we can build a better life right here in Naija.
Here’s how to stop chasing the “Greener Pastures” myth:
Identify your problems: Before packing your bags, take a deep breath and identify the root causes of your struggles.
Seek solutions: Talk to people, research options, and explore what you can do to improve your situation within your current environment.
Develop your skills: Instead of relying on “luck” abroad, invest in yourself and build valuable skills that can empower you anywhere.
Embrace the “Naija Spirit”: Remember the resourcefulness, resilience, and innovation that define us as Nigerians. These are the same qualities that can help you overcome challenges and create a fulfilling life here.
Remember: No matter where you go, you carry yourself and your problems with you. The key to creating a better future lies not in running away, but in facing your challenges with the “sabi” and determination that makes Nigerians so unique.
