Ekene Aka
For many Nigerians, navigating situations involving agbero boys (touts) and thugs can be tricky. While it’s important to be aware and prepared, it’s crucial to remember that avoidance is often the best strategy. Here are some things you SHOULD NOT do in front of agbero boys or thugs, based on common sense and insights from everyday experiences (remember, this is not intended as professional advice, but rather a general guide):
- No Dey Show Fear:
While fear is natural, appearing overly scared can be seen as weakness and might invite trouble. Maintain a calm and assertive demeanor, even if you’re feeling nervous. As Fela Kuti famously sang, “no shaking!” (don’t be afraid).
- No Dey Throw Shade:
Avoid insulting, making derogatory remarks, or engaging in arguments with agbero boys or thugs. Their responses are often unpredictable and could escalate the situation. Remember, “na who no get sense dey fight agbero” (it’s only the foolish who fight with touts)
- Keep Valuables Lowkey:
Flaunting expensive jewelry, electronics, or large sums of money can attract unwanted attention. Be discreet with your belongings and avoid unnecessary displays of wealth. As the saying goes, “no be by force to show how you get money” (it’s not necessary to show off your wealth)
- No Dey Enter Unfamiliar Territory:
If possible, avoid areas known to be frequented by agbero boys or thugs. If you must enter such areas, be extra vigilant and stay aware of your surroundings. Remember, “prevention is better than cure”
- Obey Instructions (with caution):
While blindly following instructions isn’t always advisable, in some situations, it might be safer to comply with basic requests from agbero boys, especially if they involve things like showing your ID or cooperating with a quick search. However, use your judgment and don’t hesitate to seek help from authorities** if you feel unsafe or suspect foul play.
Remember:
– Trust your gut instinct. If a situation feels off, it probably is.
– Don’t be afraid to walk away. Sometimes, the best course of action is to remove yourself from the situation.
– If things escalate, seek help from the authorities immediately.
