Eniola Lasaki
A relationship shouldn’t feel like a chore. You deserve to be loved and pampered, and not be made to constantly question their feelings for you.
My dear, once you begin to see the following signs in your relationship, it’s time to move on to your next.
1. He shows you more love in public than privately
Tell me what’s more fake than a partner who only shows you love when amidst their friends and family but will never do the same in private? Please receive sense and port.
2. Zero emotional intimacy
Without emotional intimacy, your relationship doesn’t stand a chance of graduating into something more profound. Sad but true.
3. You constantly feel exhausted
Your relationship isn’t supposed to drain you. The moment you begin to walk on eggshells in order not to offend them, then you need to go. Or is your destiny tied to them?
4. You feel more comfortable than “in love”
One way your village people set out to get you is by making you feel comfortable in a relationship while allowing you to mistake it for love. If you’re reading this, this is your sign to wake up!
5. It feels more parasitic than symbiotic
I know we all took biology classes, but that was a while back, so I’ll break it down. A parasitic relationship is one where one party benefits, while the other suffers, while a symbiotic one allows both parties to feed off each other. You get it now??? That’s all!
6. Your Energy isn’t matched
It’s unfair if you’re doing all the work in your relationship. Your energy doesn’t match, they don’t meet you halfway? A lack of effort cannot be excused. It’s time for Japa.
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